It's really not BDSM as I've seen in a lot of other stories - I think it's exceptionally well-done, actually. There's no element of D/s to it, and there's a lot of caring that I really liked. Really, the only one of that author's that I haven't read is the one with a noncon fantasy, but everything else has been really, really good. Check out the Sneakers series especially :)
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